If you don’t mind getting tons of emails from vendors then I suggest you sign up with BridalGuide.com. OMG! I’ve never rec’d so much information. Of course, as I clicked away on the links provided in the emails, I found that there are still a lot of vendors that do not posts prices on their websites, which is to be expected. Unfortunately for them, I don’t even consider those because my time is money and I need as much information as I can get, up front. Then if the price is within my budget, I may book a consultation. However, I definitely like all the options available. It’s a good thing. 
Also, here are some great links to wedding related blogs/posts:
Why Am I Such A B!*#&
Mrs. Ladybug is freakin’ hilarious. By the way, I am totally addicted to WeddingBee.com. Addicted.
Why I Wouldn’t Mind Spending $25,000 on a Wedding
(I happen to agree with this point of view – if you can afford an expensive wedding, by all means, go forth and spend. Budgets should really be relative to income. I just don’t believe in putting a wedding on a credit card, or taking out a home equity loan or going into any kind of debt for a wedding. If you can’t afford to get married the way you want, maybe you should wait. Or maybe just reevaluate what is important!)
dropped by through WB. can’t wait to hear your cost-cutting ideas.